How do we view the world of bondage sex today? In the minds of many for a long time viewed as an extreme sub culture of dungeons and pain. It is easy to envision a dominatrix disciplining or dog walking her subject in a dark room full of gadgets and contraptions. This may hold true for those who practice sadomasochism (S&M)/bondage as a lifestyle or profession but in this day we are all exposed to bondage one way or another.
Bondage has become openly available in virtually every aspect of entertainment from our most regarded icons by way of fashion magazine ads, billboards, to even our favorite TV shows hinting at the thrills of bondage. It would be hard not to notice. With the open expression of the bondage world today it can even be said to be in style. For many of us it has become very easy to identify with these types of publications due to the already existing nature within. Subconsciously knowing that it is taboo is what silently propels the power of excitement in this fantasy world.
In 1990 Kinsey institute reported that researchers stated an estimated five percent to ten percent of Americans practice S&M or Bondage. Also in speaking with a variety of people on the subject many have expressed the urge to play teacher/pupil or master/slaves roles with each other.
Whether we realize it or not there is an element of domination or submission in almost every sexual encounter. The bondage experience is about a give and take role play with your partner. To submit or subdue is what remains to be answered though at times it may not even be a question at all as we naturally fall into the role we urge more. With focus one may even elect to take the role opposite of your nature to add an intriguing twist. This transferring of authority is a relish of the bondage disciple. Physical restraint, punishment and rewards are attributes of bondage.
We may not have noticed in practice until now but most of us may have already ventured into the world of bondage. Bondage sex consists of authority role playing. Have you ever had blindfold sex, used bedpost restraints, or subdued your partner's hands with handcuffs? These are all forms of bondage sex fairly common in our bedrooms. Bondage accessories simply enhance these elements further. Slip into a deeper role and show who's in control by silencing your partners moans with a ball gag, giving the undisciplined ass a paddle spanking, or feel the pleasure of nipple clamps on your breasts as you walk the naughty on a leash & collar.
Once you are intrigued by the pleasures of bondage, forbidden fantasies and erotic role play are a common delight. Some may slightly venture into bondage sex reserving such thrills for special occasions while those who remain will have it no other way. One thing is certain a world that remained unseen and unspoken in the past has now taken a step into the light.
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